We’ll repeat for maximum effect: sleep when the baby sleeps. The chores can wait. Being more attentive and mentally present is extremely important in general, but especially with a newborn’s seemingly 24/7 required care.
Take turns to tend to the baby during the night — one partner stays in bed to catch more Z’s while the other gets up. Mind you, this works best if truly shared. If breastfeeding, this may be especially difficult for mothers. However, the more rested partner can do the heavy lifting during the day while the mother gets more sleep.
This is important for two reasons: it helps stimulate your brain to wake up and get going, while also helping your newborn develop a sleep-wake cycle that matches yours (and the world). Try going for morning walks around the neighborhood, or simply open the blinds to allow natural light.
Babies rapidly grow during their first year of life, meaning this phase will only last for a few months. Most parents report around 6 hours of sleep during the night plus a daytime nap once their baby reached between 2-4 months. Hang in there, you’ve got this.